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I have a different theory that I’m confident will not be popular with men, however; I think if there was a private focus group with Christian women and they were asked to be honest, my hypothesis would prove correct.  A lot of men trying to live the Christian Lifestyle are TO SOFT.  Yes I said it, too soft, too timid, and struggle in their identity and behavior.  And look I’m not saying this as though I’m immune from the experience. When I first made the transition from being a “fornicating fool” to living a Christian Lifestyle it was very difficult figuring out how to reprogram myself in a way that didn’t go from one extreme to the other.

What would make a difference with a lot of men would be if we were to truly study Christ and fill in some of the missing blanks.  For instance, Christ was bold, humorous, and commanding, while being humble and holy.  That is the balance that we as Christian men have to have.  Women, Christian or not have a few characteristics if men they are looking for that stay consistent.  Women want men that are leaders, that can make them laugh, that can be compassionate and stern at the same time.  The Christian Walk shouldn’t make you lose or pull back on any of these characteristics.  What ultimately ought to change when becoming a Christian male is the goal of your interaction with women and an increase in respect level.

Being a fornicating fool my objectives were clear, to get a woman to engage in physical activity with me.  I would say what I needed to say, do what I needed to do, with that very singular focus in mind.  I did it very well.  Starting the Christian Walk, the objectives changed to being respectful of every woman, having interactions that are friendship based, and being able to discriminate and find that one woman that you can potentially spend the rest of your life with.  Doing this without getting physical; I think too many Christian men think to themselves since it is a sin to get physical then I have to be completely stand offish.  That what women are looking for men who are timid, that is not the case.  You’ll find yourself being “the friend”, the nice guy that gets purely the “church hug” and watches as the woman he’s attracted to ends up with the next guy.

Instead, I encourage men to work on being more humorous, to even being slightly sarcastic, to shift focus from taking a woman out being a restaurant to instead making it about having them accompany you to the grocery store, or meeting them at star bucks.  The most important thing with women is having good conversation; a woman is constantly testing and filtering in a way that we don’t even comprehend.  It is much easier to break through those barriers and hurdles if you are in a conversational setting versus the traditional “date setting.”

Finally guys, if you show signs of your interest, but do not come across as “pressed.”  This sends wonderful vibes to women; it communicates confidence in more of a way than anything else you would do.

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Question by J.P.: Do you think christian dating websites should make women clarify “no children” when they had an abortion?
My buddy was on a christian dating website chatting with a girl who said she had no kids on her profile. Well, the topic of abortion came up and he finds out she had an abortion. I think they should need to make an option on there that says “I had a child but I decided to abort” instead of “no children”. My buddy wasted a lot of time chatting with that woman before he found out. Most christian guys aren’t going to want to date a woman like that, you know?

Best answer:

Answer by cassio peia
your buddy should date one of the duggar sknks

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Question by Pork Daddy: Does the fact that Christian women like dating “bad boys” mean they think Satan is sexy?
A lot of Christian women (especially Catholic school girls) find bad boys exciting. Satan is the ultimate bad boy, plus he’s muscular, red and horned.

Best answer:

Answer by Ablutophobe
Catholic school girls are awesome.

Add your own answer in the comments!

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Being Christian sometimes has its ups and downs. Sometimes it is hard for the world to accept them as they are. Sometimes society expects too much from them that they tend to forget that Christians, particularly women, are human also. They also do things that other women do, especially when pertaining to having dates.

It can really be hard to become a single woman, who is a Christian in every way, to look for love. Any Christian woman is always striving to keep God always present in her heart and has to act always according to the teachings of the Bible and according to her own set of personal beliefs. And what makes this hard is that sometimes people tend to look at dating as a recreational thing only. So, for single Christian women out there, if you are looking for a man who will meet you halfway, you really have to look for him, search for him if he will not come readily for you. And consider the tips that this article would like to extend.

When you are looking for love, you have to make time for it. If you are a very busy woman who is most of the time filled up with the activities of your career, your Christian activities and events, and not to mention those successive voluntary acts and programs, how can you be available for another aspect of your life? What about the dating aspect? This doesn’t mean that you will neglect all those goals and activities, which I am also sure you are not going to do, but what you need is a little break from them. If marriage and having a family is also a part of your long term goals, then make sure that you find in your busy schedule a man who will fulfill that dream for you!

There are numerous Christian dating websites presently offering and opening up a way for women like you to do this. By seeking their sites, you will be able choose and screen the possible candidates for you, before you actually decide to meet them, of course. Aside from the fact that this is less time consuming, it can also be a wise move rather than to have an actual date right away with every man you come across with personally, right?

Next thing, don’t rush into getting a date right away just because you need to have one right away. If you’ve made time for dating, don’t just jump into it upon seeing the first possible candidate for you. You don’t want to get into something reckless and hasty now, do you? So, the bottom line here is that before you make any decision that will affect you all through your life, make sure that the man is also sharing the beliefs that you do. Make sure that the two of you will share the same values, goals, and the belief in God.

So take time and keep in mind that you have plenty of options. Some Christians now-a-days decide to date later in their life. However, you may want of course the right man to share something lifelong with, correct? So don’t just settle for any man—find and settle with the Right Man.

The next step will be, the moment you’ve seen the right one for you, to ask him out. Yes, you have to make the first move because he will not be able to do it since he doesn’t know you yet, right? So after finding, from the Christian dating online, the one which you think is right for you, ask for his phone number or better yet, offer your own. Remember, God helps those who help themselves. If after talking for quite some time and you realized that HE is indeed the one, you can now go to the next move—to see him and meet him in person.

It is always different when you talk over the phone and it’s different when you talk to him face-to-face. Then that would be your first date! By doing this, you will be able to see what kind of a person he is, is he the good Christian that he claims to be? In short, you have to do everything now to be safe. Meet somewhere public; don’t give info about everything about you right away. Be wary and cautious no matter how safe you think he is. Say only those things you are comfortable with, so that when the time comes that you realized that you don’t want to see him again, you are still on a safe level.

It is always ideal to be careful from the start. It’s not as if you are not willing to trust him, but more on being careful on trusting him. You deserved the best because you are the best in your own way too. Don’t rush. And like what you’ll advice other people, stay safe and pray a lot. God will never leave you empty handed, anyway.

Question by J.P.: What should be done about women on christian dating sites dressing inappropriate in their pictures?
I saw a woman dressed in shorts that covered up only half her thigh!? What the heck?? Why are so many christian women dressing inappropriate today?

Best answer:

Answer by Bunz
I say we ban the clothing all together!

Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments!

eChristiandates.com Launches for Christian Singles

Houma, Louisiana (PRWEB) July 30, 2007

New online dating site for Christian singles, eChristiandates.com, launched today to help single Christian men and women find other singles dating of the same denomination.

Christianity is well represented and growing rapidly in many countries. Like almost all religious communities, Christianity is grouped into many sects. Some of the main sects or denominations are Protestant, Jews, Catholic, Orthodox, Evangelical, Baptists, Pentecostal and many sub sects. While Christians can date others whom exclusively share the same values and faith, Christian singles find it much easier to date other singles of the same denomination. Online dating services for Christians are part of much larger organizations which offer dating for a number of niche groups — Christians, Jewish and over 40’s.

For example, a lot of pressure can be put on Jewish singles, as well, to marry within their religion. This can make it difficult sometimes to find a compatible partner depending on how many eligible Jewish singles you have in your community for Jewish matchmaking. If there are any, then Christians have to set about finding them. EChristiandates online dating services can play a big part in helping Christians find a compatible single to start a relationship with from the same denomination. Echristiandates.com is an actual matchmaking service that matches a person’s profile with that of another. After the person has filled out the questionnaire or series of surveys, the site will match up the person with a variety of potential dates based on similar interests, demographics and psychographics.

Questionnaires are then used to build personality profiles so that people can form a much more realistic impression of the person they might be interested in meeting. No Christian relationship can work unless both partners have equal moral standards and beliefs. If one partner believes differently than the other, the dating arrangement will not work or fit into the other’s faith.

So Christian and single? New to online dating? Visit eChristiandates.com to get your feet wet, meet some nice people and maybe even find love.

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